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Ready To Get Organized? Let’s Go!

July 19, 2016 by Flight Wife 2 Comments

Are you tired of being disorganized and stressed about time? You’re not alone. If there’s one thing I can’t stand, it’s losing time (and sleep!) over things that are easily preventable with just a little extra planning on my part. I got sick of having to scramble to remember things (when I should have written them down), and having all my calendars and to-do lists all over the place. Seriously, I have post-it notes everywhere.

Running a blog, website, photography business, working part-time, and having two small kiddos while my husband is gone for days at a time keeps me busy. I can’t afford to lose time to being disorganized, so I had to come up with a system that works. And if there’s one thing I love, it’s sharing what works for me with other busy pilots’ wives.

That’s why I’m so excited to launch my new product, The Pilot WifeStyle Guide™!! I put my heart and soul into making this the best, most comprehensive collection of the things that are most important. Now I have all my lists, calendars, and contacts in ONE place. I finally have my shit together! And the best part? It’s pretty to look at, too!

This is it – my secret to staying organized, getting everything done, and staying sane while living this insane lifestyle. Never before has this type of guide been created to help with all things pilot wife-related. And now it’s available at your fingertips!

Here’s what you get when you download the Pilot WifeStyle Guide™:

Over 20 beautifully stylized pages of vital information, including a checklist for what to do if something happens to your pilot.
Contact pages designed to keep things all in one place. Quickly find your contacts in case of emergency, something breaking, or if you need to contact your pilot’s company.
A monthly calendar, birthday calendar, and password tracker to stay organized.
My entire list bundle including daily and weekly to-do lists, weekly cleaning checklist, a kid chore chart, weekly meal planner, and grocery list.
Travel printouts for packing, listing yourself to non-rev, and even a packing list for the kids. Everything you need to make your trip as smooth as possible.
There’s even a printout to note things to discuss with your pilot – no more forgetting what you needed to tell them!

Seriously, this guide is jam-packed with the most invaluable pilot wife info. The first of its kind, you won’t find this material, all in once place, anywhere else. What are you waiting for? Download your copy of the Pilot WifeStyle Guide™ and get organized! Pilot wife-ing like a boss.

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Xoxo,

The Flight Wife

Kids Bathroom Makeover – Fun And Friendly Whales!

August 16, 2015 by Flight Wife 18 Comments

I am so excited to show you this makeover! I finally finished the kids’ bathroom and I love it so much more than when we first moved in. Come see how I turned a blah guest bathroom into a super cute whale-themed kids bathroom! (Full disclosure: This post contains affiliate links. Your support is awesome!)

Here’s a little taste of the “after” bathroom:

Let’s go back to where it all began… So when we first moved into our house last October, there were all sorts of fun colors in every room (most of which were an awful, dark red). The spare bathroom was no exception.

Yellow walls with black and red décor? Oy. It was a little harsh for my taste, to say the least. So off I went to find out what kind of theme I wanted that would work for both my son and daughter to share. I had already changed the bathroom a little bit, but only by putting up what I already had. So here’s what we started with:

Not too awful, but definitely not what I wanted for the kiddos. After scouring Pinterest, I decided that whales were super cute and versatile! Plus, whales seem to be everywhere, so finding things to fit the theme wasn’t too difficult. The first thing that needed to go were the yellow walls. We decided on blue paint with wainscot and chair rail on the one large wall. I set to work taping off everything to get it ready. (The whale painting was the first thing I purchased and what made me choose the theme – I bought it at one of those wine/painting parties, which are so fun!)

Here’s the spot we tested out the paint and taped off where the wainscot would go, which is pictured right underneath.

Next, I decided to change out the brass and silver fixtures. I decided that I didn’t want the silver faucets or any of the 1990’s brass that is EVERYWHERE throughout the house.

After researching how much it would cost to replace all the fixtures ($20-$30 for ONE doorknob!) I did some digging around for other options. Lucky for me, Pinterest was to the rescue once again! I found out that I could spray paint them oil-rubbed bronze! I know, it sounds crazy. And does it last? The answer is yes, and some people have had it last for years! I bought a few cans of Rust-Oleum Oil Rubbed Bronze spray paint and it was seriously magic! For $5-$6 a can it’s a bargain upgrade.

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I started with the faucets. At the time, my husband was on a trip and when I told him my plan he said I could just wait for him to come home if I wanted. Um, no thanks. I’ve got this. A couple YouTube videos later, and I was on my way…

Yeah buddy! It was a little more complicated than I thought it would be (shutting off the water, taking it apart under the sink, etc.) but I’m so glad I learned how! I’ll do another post on a spray paint tutorial to show you how I did it. But after I painted the faucets and whale hooks, I decided to do the light switch plates and even the toilet paper holder!

Here’s what the faucets look like now. Why yes, I did reinstall them myself!!

So much better! Next we put up the wainscot and chair rail, as well as the whale hooks (from Hobby Lobby) that I also spray painted.

I knew that I wanted to put up some bath pictures of my kids, so I ordered 20″x20″ canvases of my favorites and put them up. I LOVE how it turned out! I highly suggest measuring your space to decide which size will work best. I originally thought that 10″x10″ would be ok, but when I measured it out that would have been way too small. So glad I went bigger!

I found this wooden whale wall décor at Hobby Lobby, but when I chose the colors for the bathroom it didn’t match at all…

So I whipped out my acrylic paints and painted it myself! It took less than 15 minutes to turn it into this (I used the shower curtain I bought at Target as the color reference):

Now he’s right above the door, and he matches!

I also used my amazing Silhouette Cameo machine to cut out vinyl whales for my accessories. I bought this plain bathroom set and stool from Target:

And turned it into this:

I love how it turned out! My Silhouette Cameo has come in so handy for so many projects that it has practically paid for itself. I’ll be posting more of those soon.

After that, it was all about the details! Even though I was in love with the painting I bought, it didn’t exactly match the colors I had picked. So of course I had to repaint it to match. Ahhh, much better!

I love these happy little whales! I got the whale figurine and whale tail from Hobby Lobby and I had the shelf already, but I think it was from Target.

Then I added a few more bath pictures of the kids in cute frames (from Hobby Lobby).

And then came the towel holder and light switch plates. The towel holder was the only thing I bought that I didn’t spray paint; it was already oil-rubbed bronze.

Here’s what it looked like before!

Then we replaced the light fixture, which made a huge difference! (Purchased from Home Depot.)

I also added a new (oil-rubbed bronze of course!) shower curtain rod and little whale hooks! Adorable!

There you have it! That is how I made over my kids’ bathroom – small changes can make a huge difference! Have any questions? Let me know below!

Xoxo,

The Flight Wife

How To Fake A Clean House When Your Husband Gets Home

August 4, 2015 by Flight Wife 5 Comments

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I know you’ve felt it – that dread that hits you when you’re husband is about to get home, and the house isn’t clean. Again. You’ve been chasing after the kids, trying to keep up with the messes but it’s a losing battle.

As soon as you put away the breakfast dishes, you look over and one kid has dumped toys all over the living room for the millionth time. And before you can even think of having him help you put them away (but really, why bother?), your one year old just decided to wear her breakfast and also share with the floor. It never ends.

Add laundry, chores, school, activities, and all the other stuff you’re supposed to take care of by yourself and you’ve got an overwhelming amount of responsibility on your plate. And I can hear your teeth grinding from here as you try not to think about your husband sleeping uninterrupted in a dark hotel room somewhere. So when he gets home and starts nitpicking your housekeeping skills instead of thanking you for keeping everyone alive, it can definitely sting.

We’ve all heard some version of these comments before:

“Well, what have you been doing while I was gone?”

(Oh, the usual. Sitting around bored watching the kids feed themselves and get themselves dressed. Then I laid on the couch for a couple hours while I watched them play nicely together and then pick up their toys without being asked. Oh, and then our 5 year old made us all dinner and then the kids gave themselves a bath! Crazy huh?! What have I been doing? They don’t even need me!)

“Don’t you like having a clean house?”

(No. I like living in filth, actually. It’s always been my dream.)

“I don’t know why it’s so hard to keep it clean.”

(You also don’t know where we keep the toaster. Or where the scissors are. There are lots of things you don’t know – because you aren’t here. Add it to the list, buddy.)

“This place is a disaster.”

(Your face is a disaster.)

Those may or may not have been thoughts that have gone through my mind. Those little ~~jabs~~ comments can be enough to make you want to scream, and it’s hard to keep your composure when you’re trying very hard to resist the urge to set the house on fire.

I’ve never been a fan of cleaning. I would honestly rather sit through a Justin Bieber concert (please no), or give up wine for a week (oh God), or hell, give birth again (sweet mother of pain stop the insanity) – than have to clean my house. What’s ironic is that I’m actually quite good at cleaning. But that doesn’t mean that I like it.

I go through the 5 stages of grief when I have to clean:

Denial – It’s not that bad… I mean, it’s not like we’re hoarders. Now those people have a problem. Look, I can still see some floor! Over there… under the couch.

Anger – Why am I the only one who cleans around here?! Oh, that’s right, because apparently I’m the only one who lives here! IT NEVER ENDS!! Why am I cleaning when it’s just going to be a mess again tomorrow?! Who am I kidding – in 5 minutes?! WHYYYYYYYY?!?!?! I HATE THIS HOUSE. I HATE MY LIFE. I HATE EVERYTHING. I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED A DOCTOR.

Bargaining – Ok, if I get the living room cleaned I’ll let myself have a glass of wine and watch one episode of my favorite show after I get the kids to bed. Then I’ll clean the rest of the house… Holy crap it’s 11 pm and I’m drunk and accidentally watched 3 hours – here, let me pick up some of these couch pillows.

Depression – Why can’t I like cleaning? I am the worst wife/mom ever. He’s going to leave me. He’s going to leave me for a younger woman who actually enjoys this shit. I hate her. That cleaning whore. Why am I so bad at this? I need more wine.

Acceptance – Ok here we go. I can do this. I will not be a bitter old hag wife. See? This isn’t too bad. Oh my God I will never get this time back. I could be doing so many other things right now. Don’t think about that. Let’s just get this done. Oh wow, that wasn’t too bad actually. Hey, look at that! One room down, 8 to – what the hell was that noise? Wait, why have the kids been so quiet?!?!

And so the cycle goes. If you’re like me, you do clean while your husband is gone, it’s just hard to get it to stay that way. Kids can undo a clean house in 2.4 seconds, give them a day alone and it’ll look like a natural disaster hit.

So, you have a couple options (yes, aside from telling your husband to go to hell and/or cleaning it himself since it’s so easy.)

The first is to hire a housecleaner. I realize this is not an option for most. Especially if you’re a pilot wife. I hope you didn’t just choke on your drink. Sorry about that.

Another, cheaper option is to hire a mother’s helper. Have a neighbor kid or a babysitter come over for a few hours so you can finally get some things done in peace. And if you decide to take a nap instead, no judgment.

The last option is to fake it ‘til you make it. Do it yourself, so to speak. But who has the time? How do you make it look clean when it isn’t? I’m going to spill all my secrets, friends. Because you deserve to spend more time relaxing and less time stressing. And your husband will be amazed at how you’ve managed to do it.

Tip 1: Declutter

Get rid of crap. All of it. All the piles of paper, the junk that sits around collecting dust, and toys that aren’t getting played with? In the trash. Take a giant plastic bag and go through your house, putting in whatever you see that needs to go. Stop hanging on to stuff you don’t need. This cleans off your counter space, floor space, all kinds of space! Don’t let the kids wailing about their toys getting thrown away stop you. You’re in the zone, and this is serious business. Better yet, do it while they’re sleeping. They’ll never miss those horrid, noisy toys your in-laws gave them anyway. I’m kidding. Sort of.

Tip 2: Everything in its place

Everything needs to have a place. End of story. When everything has somewhere to go, it makes your life so much easier. Teach your kids where everything goes, and there will be no excuse for not putting things away. You take it out, you put it back. Doesn’t get any simpler than that. And yes – make the kids help you clean!! Even my one year old helps me sweep the floor. And yes, I count eating Cheerios off the floor sweeping.

Tip 3: Hide it

Buy decorative storage. This is probably the best tip I can give you. Baskets and bins are your new best friends. You can throw all kinds of stuff into bins and it looks organized, even if it’s chaos.

I got this unit at IKEA and made the top 2 bins for my son’s toys and the bottom 2 for my daughter’s toys. Takes me 5 minutes every night for us to throw them all in there and put them away.

See all the crap I can hide? It only looks clean. But that’s all that matters.

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Our nicely organized entertainment center…

Hold up, what?! That’s right, I just throw movies in the cabinets and no one knows. It’ll get organized someday. Not today though. Not today…

Oh look at this clean little corner…

Nope, more toys!!

But what about over here?

I keep all of our remotes (omg, how do we have so many?!) in that table drawer, and all of the chargers and cords we have (for iPads, phones, etc.) in that bottom bin. So easy!

Tip 4: Keep your supplies handy

It’s not easy to clean when your cleaning supplies are not within reach. I keep a small vacuum ($20!! Here on Amazon) and a Swiffer WetJet out in the kitchen at all times. When messes happen I can clean them in 2 minutes or less. Does it replace actually mopping the floor? Of course not. But when I do mop eventually, it’s a million times easier. The best part is I can put these away in 5 seconds if I need to. Cleaning is way less of a hassle when you help yourself out. Think to yourself, what would make cleaning easier for me? And then do it!

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I made this cabinet a space for games and turned the pullout basket thing into a diaper changing station that hides away so I don’t need to have it out. The nursery is upstairs and there’s no way I’m going upstairs every time I need to change a diaper. Boom. Problem solved.

I also keep a small pop-up hamper in the living room (right next to the kitchen) for dirty clothes, dirty bibs, or dirty towels. It’s amazing how often that thing gets used. Then I just drop it off into the laundry room in one trip!

I also don’t keep all my cleaning supplies in one place. Why would I do that when my rooms are all completely spread out? I have a toilet brush and some cleaner in each of our 3 bathrooms. I also keep a small vacuum upstairs as well as downstairs because it’s super annoying to carry stuff up and down the stairs, and I am lazy if you haven’t noticed. Necessity is the mother of invention right?

Keep everything handy and you will thank me later.

Tip 5: Vacuum everything. EVERYTHING.

My Dyson vacuum is probably the best purchase for cleaning I have ever made. Why? Because the attachments are little rescuers of sanity. Do you know what I can vacuum up with this thing? Whole pieces of cereal. Entire Cheez-Its, broken or intact. Tiny shreds of paper and ripped up toilet paper strewn all over the room. See where I’m going with this? And dust. Oh, sweet heaven I can dust with my vacuum. It’s amazing. I can retrieve toys from under the couch, clean a high chair, make couch cushions look new again, and dust a whole room with ease. I strongly recommend getting a vacuum with attachments. It has cut my cleaning time in half, if not more.

Well, there you have it. My best tips for faking a clean house, or at least making cleaning a little bit easier. Enjoy your free time!

Xoxo,

The Flight Wife

Have any tips of your own? I’d love to hear them! Comment below and let me know what you think. 🙂